tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28177196527879448852024-03-14T02:17:53.454-07:00Kiddie Tips Parenting TipsQuick and easy, eco-friendly Kid Tips for parents. Email your parenting tips and kiddie tips to kiddietips@yahoo.comL. Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.comBlogger191125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-17862413208672259972015-06-03T17:51:00.001-07:002015-06-03T17:52:52.192-07:00Explore the world...with your kids Ever wanted to travel...with your kids....around the world? Count me in! It sounds so crazy but exotic but the best way for a kid to really learn about life. Read this story of a family of 8 who travels the world and how you can start living your legend. <a href="http://liveyourlegend.net/travel-the-world-with-family-of-8/">http://liveyourlegend.net/travel-the-world-with-family-of-8/</a>L. Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-81411843216361007232015-05-25T10:23:00.000-07:002015-05-25T10:29:57.177-07:00World's Best Norwegian Sweet Waffles - VaflerI'm a bit of a waffle snob. I won't eat Belgian (really thick and crispy) and I don't like Eggos. I like my waffles sweet, soft and fluffy and heart shaped. Norwegian style.<br />
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My friend Darlene received this delicious recipe from her Norwegian born mother-in-law. The key ingredient? No baking powder or soda. No yeast. Just 9 whipped egg whites.<br />
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Then there's the sweetness. Like a cup and a half. Enough sugar to make your kid zip around the house frantically, way too much for a diabetic and so much that you won't reach for syrup or jam or lingonberry or whipped cream or Nutella.<br />
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Think heart shaped, fluffy pound cake. I have searched the web and have not seen a recipe like this.<br />
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Be patient. It will take 45 minutes to prep and cook all 20 waffles. For me it takes 10 minutes cuz I have four irons. See, I am waffle obsessed. <br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">World's Best Norwegian Sweet Waffles<br />9 eggs<br />1.5 c sugar<br />1 stick melted butter<br />3 c flour (gluten free flour works too)<br />2 c milk<br />1 tablespoon <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Vanilla-Sugar-Dan-Sukker-4-Pack/dp/B00FYVWBIE/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1432571576&sr=8-2&keywords=dan+sukker" target="_blank">vanilla sukker</a> (vanilla sugar, available at Scandinavian specialty shops) or pure vanilla extract</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Prep: 15 minutes</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br />Turn on your waffle iron. Preferably <a href="http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_2?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=waffle%20maker%20heart" target="_blank">heart shaped</a> or a <a href="http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=waffle+classic&rh=i%3Aaps%2Ck%3Awaffle+classic" target="_blank">classic one</a>. Don't use a Belgian waffle maker as your waffles will come out crispy and not fluffy.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Separate the egg whites and beat to stiff peaks and set aside. Mix the yolks with the remaining ingredients. Once batter is mixed, fold in the egg whites lightly. Butter your iron and add an ice cream scoop of batter to the iron. Put on your favorite Pandora station. This could take you another 30 minutes to make your stack of vaflers. </span><br />
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Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-63328577292237338222015-04-18T21:17:00.000-07:002015-05-08T02:47:40.707-07:00Stitch FixJust received my first shipment of clothes hand picked by my personnel stylist. Loving my silver chandelier earrings. This is the perfect service for the busy mommy who needs some new clothes but isn't sure what to buy. Just fill <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">out the Stitch Fix Style Profile and a personal stylist will handpick a selection of five clothing items and accessories unique to your taste, budget and lifestyle. Buy what you like and return the rest. Learn more here </span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><a href="http://bit.ly/1F90JWZ">http://bit.ly/1F90JWZ</a></span>L. Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-43718166704886891722015-04-13T21:52:00.000-07:002015-04-25T06:11:39.152-07:00Umpqua oatmealHave been sharing Umpqua oatmeal with my friends. This is so much better than instant oatmeal packets. #umpqua<br><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhj38WdIvFet_KfUfePo7pQseNCaLRwqSZZCm3LKyXiomSNkmUmvAj__L4bzTzEWRUA7y5dWAtc67RYaNoDTDIwXDNTTbclGjau3whv31TcBV2zvMEa6A_NHAf0lHpsA8A0zaIHkTU2SC8/s640/blogger-image-1694866628.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhj38WdIvFet_KfUfePo7pQseNCaLRwqSZZCm3LKyXiomSNkmUmvAj__L4bzTzEWRUA7y5dWAtc67RYaNoDTDIwXDNTTbclGjau3whv31TcBV2zvMEa6A_NHAf0lHpsA8A0zaIHkTU2SC8/s640/blogger-image-1694866628.jpg"></a></div>L. Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-13052940648840647322015-01-23T19:56:00.001-08:002015-01-23T19:56:08.839-08:00TV is a reward<span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">When we get home from school, before the TV is turned on... I have the girls clean up a section of the house that they have destroyed. Set the timer and they move quicker. </span><br><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEHkKTpKrGJW6E34QWsfjKxX8ChOIkZgV_INSf-gy1iomd7FmiCKu66LLtcqqz0kDoUoTPT56XK_p1r8PnGnCrYBnfAoGSw401-HFgzwyHtlfJVJXwZ2CC9DgmN5BECIyEehTgRR5Kls0/s640/blogger-image-1535290467.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEHkKTpKrGJW6E34QWsfjKxX8ChOIkZgV_INSf-gy1iomd7FmiCKu66LLtcqqz0kDoUoTPT56XK_p1r8PnGnCrYBnfAoGSw401-HFgzwyHtlfJVJXwZ2CC9DgmN5BECIyEehTgRR5Kls0/s640/blogger-image-1535290467.jpg"></a></div>L. Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-28613833644278680142014-07-19T09:15:00.001-07:002014-07-19T09:15:16.262-07:00Kids and dishes<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjnn_xufheBVOHVhEw9daI7afErqNP0io9kdIY-b95KLbjuQ2YCDOZwZab0yxbfJEnB4IvCEEL6DPApbKKypVd08Bn-Mzrv-Rg7YO_RtZ90sKHO2bj5EzJt8Jn5ZXIe2xiZ1TVhzYbeQDc/s640/blogger-image--1303010581.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjnn_xufheBVOHVhEw9daI7afErqNP0io9kdIY-b95KLbjuQ2YCDOZwZab0yxbfJEnB4IvCEEL6DPApbKKypVd08Bn-Mzrv-Rg7YO_RtZ90sKHO2bj5EzJt8Jn5ZXIe2xiZ1TVhzYbeQDc/s640/blogger-image--1303010581.jpg"></a></div>Yes she can. And you don't have to do it all. 7 year olds can put away dishes. #kiddieresponsibility #havethemhelpL. Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-39370037490687144122014-07-13T21:12:00.001-07:002014-07-13T21:12:12.857-07:00TV and laundryTV is a reward. And they watch, have them fold some laundry. #kiddieresponsibility<div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFurCFl7g8vUYoHhW4nUeKEXW7MuEqoYnkPtFDXGZda2SSvEaYafXDxz9fzgi_6H03hhOxhGCjkD_bMlTWkhs_BCLDLQS2XGnOfm8H5me5EHe8-W8hPskCUgZCl2ZNMfga0L9gMTnabRk/s640/blogger-image--639126007.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFurCFl7g8vUYoHhW4nUeKEXW7MuEqoYnkPtFDXGZda2SSvEaYafXDxz9fzgi_6H03hhOxhGCjkD_bMlTWkhs_BCLDLQS2XGnOfm8H5me5EHe8-W8hPskCUgZCl2ZNMfga0L9gMTnabRk/s640/blogger-image--639126007.jpg"></a></div><br></div>L. Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-24255188415164735662014-06-28T10:20:00.001-07:002014-06-28T10:20:14.220-07:00Eating more veggies. Intentionally.Summer break is upon us. Girls are home with a shared nanny. And it seems, they are always in the fridge. Starving and searching for food. My oldest has a huge aversion to green things. My battle has begun. She does like cucumbers and celery. So I bought a celery stalk and cut it up in "ready to eat" bites. And she loves chocolate. Nutella and peanut butter with cucumbers or celery? Yup. 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Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-4623335808290009482014-05-15T22:28:00.001-07:002014-05-15T22:40:49.029-07:00Bye bye toys<div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">If you have ever tried to give away or organize your kid's toys, today is your last day of cleaning up their messes. Drun roll please. This article will change you. I promise. One of my fav sentences is at the end of the article where Ruth says that her girls like not being overwhelmed by toys and it makes it easier to clean. Aha!! 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Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-90755914265224930482014-05-12T23:44:00.001-07:002014-05-12T23:44:14.210-07:0010 things to tell your daughter<div>Good reminders! </div><div><br></div><div><p style="margin: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: Helvetica;">http://www.huffingtonpost.com/lindsey-mead-russell/ten-things-ten-years-olds-should-know_b_1553134.html</p></div>L. Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-22434573104800774142014-04-05T08:06:00.001-07:002014-04-05T08:09:40.155-07:00Play date eggsThe girls had some friends over the other day and we dyed a dozen Easter eggs. Cheap and fun. Before dying the eggs, I had them color and write on the eggs with crayons. 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Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-24737585254982532002014-04-03T16:01:00.001-07:002014-04-03T16:01:09.342-07:00Get inspired to declutter<br />
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L. Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-14693115152171285992014-03-08T22:34:00.001-08:002014-03-08T22:37:44.356-08:00Quality time<div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><br></div>As the night wears on my eight-year old gets sad, defeated and cranky. So lately, soon after dinner, we have a daily<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"> 1:1. This is unstructured mommy time where she creates the agenda and leads the discussion. I only take myself. No laptop and no cell phone. She needs it. I need it.</span><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgsFHuZjOQ8FXznIddAkDny6XHDTPA3oTAHwf3T0wXzoZIfKqGhLGgIgwZgK4gHDJ85yRVAj1dLRXoLwiYUmNc62ySxGTyjKiTLD3ZvXi1FUChHscNpbI8yPXpPNwx1ROPH90T1HcJ5VOg/s640/blogger-image--419229799.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgsFHuZjOQ8FXznIddAkDny6XHDTPA3oTAHwf3T0wXzoZIfKqGhLGgIgwZgK4gHDJ85yRVAj1dLRXoLwiYUmNc62ySxGTyjKiTLD3ZvXi1FUChHscNpbI8yPXpPNwx1ROPH90T1HcJ5VOg/s640/blogger-image--419229799.jpg"></a></div><br></div><br></div><br></span></div>L. Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-39883345045096282642014-02-18T00:21:00.001-08:002014-02-18T22:01:08.787-08:00READ to your childNever stop reading to her. Even when she can do it all on her own. I admit, I kinda slowed down on reading with my girls over the last few years but my oldest just got Charlotee's Web the other day and she asked me to read it to her. And I loved it. She loved it. The story and spending time with each other. Perfectly needed.<div><br></div><div>Dr. Laura asks<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;"> "But why give up such an important time to connect with each other emotionally? Why give up the chance to read books that trigger good discussions about values and choices and hardships and hope? Don’t stop till she fires you." Read more here </span><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">http://www.ahaparenting.com/Default.aspx?PageID=1280625&A=SearchResult&SearchID=7650494&ObjectID=1280625&ObjectType=1</span></font></div><br><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUOgWuBh-4zs6q9dlsgHuhu9hiMpof9KQUE_3oDBwzRtAGTtioVM9-iyDFypwyPUnscNchRPeHCDWgFPFEaAZpcun46aoYsLz8zcwPj2BqzKvsSuoIDmyNO3gAm5_o-DD42cCUDJDKBy4/s640/blogger-image--1906241569.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUOgWuBh-4zs6q9dlsgHuhu9hiMpof9KQUE_3oDBwzRtAGTtioVM9-iyDFypwyPUnscNchRPeHCDWgFPFEaAZpcun46aoYsLz8zcwPj2BqzKvsSuoIDmyNO3gAm5_o-DD42cCUDJDKBy4/s640/blogger-image--1906241569.jpg"></a></div>L. Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-80916219148568068782014-01-19T11:04:00.001-08:002014-01-19T11:04:08.490-08:00Check listsIf you check it, they will come. My girls Love lists. So this week I created one for the morning routine and another for the evening.<div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-W6Jq0NXKyeC-xO1ludhT4REKhnXLqEVDw_wwrhz5Rsk49463Sc4mIxLF4kJbvcxZm12LpVhyOn39LC-fxq0sXz_MlRL5kVzgVBN9BCsmR8q9vZUY5PnnDamZhvVOxrusHyn2a7f_K3E/s640/blogger-image-370398474.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-W6Jq0NXKyeC-xO1ludhT4REKhnXLqEVDw_wwrhz5Rsk49463Sc4mIxLF4kJbvcxZm12LpVhyOn39LC-fxq0sXz_MlRL5kVzgVBN9BCsmR8q9vZUY5PnnDamZhvVOxrusHyn2a7f_K3E/s640/blogger-image-370398474.jpg"></a></div><br></div><div>This has helped us keep track of all the tasks and activities that need to occur so we can make the bus and get to bed. It's also a great way for them to be more independent and manage their time. <div><br></div></div><div>I also made a quick one today of some chores. I let them decide on the consequences if they didn't finish by 130pm. Here's my hastily written list.</div><div><br></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhV7Y9k3ji0gsyFom99kLh6KvFpDofmDcpKfV-NFw0xX-87dsTrDAoicth-Isk7atn4qeUdoyr6yQbtIq_amp1zt7orMj-Ble_O-coMzGA-SPmwv5t6iQ8TJBqSI3v9ochMejroBtPw5_8/s640/blogger-image--915197971.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhV7Y9k3ji0gsyFom99kLh6KvFpDofmDcpKfV-NFw0xX-87dsTrDAoicth-Isk7atn4qeUdoyr6yQbtIq_amp1zt7orMj-Ble_O-coMzGA-SPmwv5t6iQ8TJBqSI3v9ochMejroBtPw5_8/s640/blogger-image--915197971.jpg"></a></div><br></div><div>They have a few hours to do all of this and I am not going to micro manage them. I promise. Let's see how the do!</div>L. Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-48533959941263138102013-12-28T08:45:00.001-08:002013-12-28T08:45:20.461-08:00Peaceful parentingI first stumbled upon this parenting coach on Pinterest. The article was about strengthening your relationship with your child. <font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif">In it, Dr. Laura Markham provides a list of things you can do to connect with like hugging your kid 12 times a day and turning off your technology. My favorite is Show Up. You only have 900 weeks with your kid before they leave the house. Be present, be engaged. Inspired? Read more here: </font><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px;">http://www.ahaparenting.com/_blog/Parenting_Blog/post/10_Habits_To_Stay_Connected_To_Your_Child/</span><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><br></font></div><div><br></div><br><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEilwJhRcMUsCL5mF7OLwW_Pnd57N1OnovWWAJV-9xxyTZ51cQKaZYFdmMDxUSnUlEGLdnZPi9ONzEbbjOGcjGZHcIcjXOiqfR4Ng8kUq4_aaWPYE9iKitQd6ckH1_1G2jMjLtYI1MJFqE4/s640/blogger-image-56562045.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEilwJhRcMUsCL5mF7OLwW_Pnd57N1OnovWWAJV-9xxyTZ51cQKaZYFdmMDxUSnUlEGLdnZPi9ONzEbbjOGcjGZHcIcjXOiqfR4Ng8kUq4_aaWPYE9iKitQd6ckH1_1G2jMjLtYI1MJFqE4/s640/blogger-image-56562045.jpg"></a></div>L. Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-45673372649675823492013-12-11T22:14:00.001-08:002013-12-11T22:14:32.027-08:00Habit 7 — Sharpen The Saw<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">Balance Feels Best. What you role model and teach</span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I: </span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">take care of my body by eating right, exercising and getting sleep. I spend time with family and friends. I learn in lots of ways and lots of places, not just at school. I find meaningful ways to help others. All the 7 habits - </span><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto;">http://www.theleaderinme.org/the-7-habits-for-kids</span></font>L. Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-55072544123441839742013-12-06T21:40:00.001-08:002013-12-06T21:40:51.315-08:00Habit 6 — Synergize<h3 style="margin: 0px 0px 10px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; font-weight: normal;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-size: 17px;">Together</span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px;"> Is Better</span></h3><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Here's what you teach and role model: I value other people’s strengths and learn from them. I get along well with others, even people who are different than me. I work well in groups. I seek out other people’s ideas to solve problems because I know that by teaming with others we can create better solutions than anyone of us can alone. I am humble.</span>L. Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-67142489220268218732013-11-26T16:52:00.000-08:002013-12-01T19:56:42.278-08:00Habit 5 - understand<h3 style="border: 0px; margin: 0px 0px 10px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Habit 5 — Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood. Here's what you role model: I Listen Before I talk. I listen</span></span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"> to other people’s ideas and feelings. I try to see things from their viewpoints. I listen to others without interrupting. I am confident in voicing my ideas. I look people in the eyes when talking.</span></span></h3>
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I am a huge offender of this one. I L O V E to give advice, suggestions...working on pausing and biting my tongue. </span></div>
L. Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-86786048611185018292013-11-23T14:51:00.005-08:002013-11-23T14:52:52.196-08:00Habit 4 — Think Win-Win<h3>
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<b>Everyone Can Win. </b><br />
You role model and teach:<b> </b>I balance courage for getting what I want with consideration for what
others want. I make deposits in others’ Emotional Bank Accounts. When
conflicts arise, I look for third alternatives.<br />
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I want most of the girls' toys out of the house. Like now. So I asked the girls to consider some options. They decided on creating two bins: one for charity and one for storage. Belle wanted one bin but Janae wanted to put some toys in the shed. The deal is if she asks to play with the ones unseen in a year, then they stay, if not, then off to Goodwill. <br />
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Grab the kids and <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=83gzM4HyQ9I">watch this short Wreck it Ralph video</a> on Win-Win thinking. L. Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-73941025943435367712013-11-08T06:20:00.000-08:002013-11-23T14:53:37.395-08:00Habit 3 — Put First Things First.<table style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;"><tbody style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;">
<tr style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;"><td style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Habit 3 — Put First Things First. Here is what you teach and role model: </span></span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Work First, Then Play. </span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I spend my time on things that are most important. This means I say no to things I know I should not do. I set priorities, make a schedule, and follow my plan. I am disciplined and organized.</span><br />
<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br /></span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">ACTION - Have your child make a list of important roles - soccer player, student, member of the family, etc, schedule activities around these roles.</span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br /></span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><a href="https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=coloring%20pages%20for%207%20habits%20of%20happy%20kids&source=web&cd=1&ved=0CCoQFjAA&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.theleaderinme.org%2Ffor%2Fparents%2Fcoloring-pages%2F&ei=G_F8Ur2AF-iligLHvIGwBg&usg=AFQjCNGTOi6_FlkVlSSLAtycXKNFNnXFfw&sig2=asyiOLBG6VCQ87wkALr_xQ&bvm=bv.56146854,d.cGE">Here are some coloring pages. </a> You talk, they color. </span></td></tr>
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L. Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-14282974842897429472013-10-22T22:56:00.000-07:002014-02-18T22:24:49.756-08:00Habit 2 - Have a plan<br>
<span class="userContent">7 habits for happy kids by Sean Covey. H</span>abit 2 — Begin with the End in Mind. <span class="userContent">Here's what you teach and role model: </span><strong> </strong><br>
<strong>Have a Plan. </strong>I plan ahead and set goals. I do things that have meaning and make a
difference. I am an important part of my classroom and contribute to my
school’s mission and vision. I look for ways to be a good citizen.<br><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhmlKFpoc0HR0yi11ZwUBxVt4CNuCQOnnaihY5IBXFYnThoDghackCdIcixwHOMBDnSDVMds15qtWii-U5IVXuBvq1iXMw84Vmw8Bq7ktta9PTgvDPQTSIdSmBEBW75qP34dYY89Od6NZI/s640/blogger-image--2065591359.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhmlKFpoc0HR0yi11ZwUBxVt4CNuCQOnnaihY5IBXFYnThoDghackCdIcixwHOMBDnSDVMds15qtWii-U5IVXuBvq1iXMw84Vmw8Bq7ktta9PTgvDPQTSIdSmBEBW75qP34dYY89Od6NZI/s640/blogger-image--2065591359.jpg"></a></div>L. Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2817719652787944885.post-24369869621102380222013-10-13T04:43:00.001-07:002014-02-18T22:24:11.620-08:00Habit 1 for kids - Be proactive<h3 style="margin: 0px 0px 10px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 17px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I am officially a facilitator of 7 Habits of highly effectively people. These relevant principles can apply to guiding your kiddies. Here's habit 1 - Be Proactive. </span><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px;">You're in Charge. Here's what you teach and role model:</span></h3><p style="margin: 0px 0px 15px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I am a responsible person. I take initiative. I choose my actions, attitudes, and moods. I do not blame others for my wrong actions. I do the right thing without being asked, even when no one is looking. Good stuff. More habits coming...</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 15px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; outline: 0px;"><br></p><br><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-5ihBYLJTiFtxGJkhJrdoUaIQ-oA6SL5zVZYQKGVwhxRAW3O28SDFNe2p5WuD2I1V2sAM3H9PTkccCVjrsoXjFAMvvm5WUCxjAtQDRB2O_4GS9fFHKDSHMPvAxVBWremp1PYLMcc3cD4/s640/blogger-image--91701261.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-5ihBYLJTiFtxGJkhJrdoUaIQ-oA6SL5zVZYQKGVwhxRAW3O28SDFNe2p5WuD2I1V2sAM3H9PTkccCVjrsoXjFAMvvm5WUCxjAtQDRB2O_4GS9fFHKDSHMPvAxVBWremp1PYLMcc3cD4/s640/blogger-image--91701261.jpg"></a></div>L. Vallanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11703174906297596571noreply@blogger.com0